JOGULAMBA GADWAL POLICE

WOMEN'S CORNER - VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

Affair Proof Of Your Relationship

Always remember! No counseling is better than the couple and their kids thrash it out among themselves.

To err is human! Mistakes can take place from both the sides. One should not misuse any law to cover one's own mistake.

Never exaggerate what had happened to you. In other words, be clear, frank and specific about the issue.

Never include the persons who are NOT connected with the harassment. Be honest.

Always remember! 498A is not a law to take revenge but punish those responsible for harassment severely so that others learn a lesson.

There are many vested interests around to take undue advantage of your helplessness. They might misguide you by exaggerating the facts, adding those who are unconnected with the harassment to the list of accused, exaggerating the amount of dowry etc.

Should you need help in expressing your woes, please take the help of reputed voluntary organizations or help lines only. Avoid the unscrupulous persons who always promise you to get your dowry amount back and extort money from the accused side and dilute your case.

Ensure your presence while someone drafts the complaint for you and ask him to read it out before you lodge it in the P.S

Some victims are misguided to exaggerate the contents of the complaint in order to make it a STRONG case. The truth is entire strength of the case hinges on quality of evidence that is provided by the victim. If the contents of the complaint are not supported by the facts on the ground, cases become very weak and genuine victims suffer

If any policeman or the officer concerned demands money for investigating the case and arrest the accused, do not give in. Bring it to the notice of his or her superiors.

Never forget that both the daughter and daughter in law deserve similar affection and care.

Remember! 498A is not a tool to force the other party for divorce. There are so many of other legal procedures to find solutions to the incompatibilities in the marriage.

498A is also not a tool to get the custody of children. There are other alternate legal methods for this.

Never force the police to arrest the accused on same day of lodging complaint as gathering credible evidence takes some time. However, you can help the police expedite the investigation by providing most of the evidence at the time of lodging complaint itself.

If you have the information that the accused are planning to leave the country, you can always bring it to the notice of the concerned investigating officer without delay. Police can alert all the international airports or sea ports for their detention, if needed.